Men who insult women or point out their weaknesses in a bid to woo them are not normal. They are very insecure humans. They lack wisdom and emotional intelligence.
Some men have been doing this for decades and they think women find it funny. They insist that some women fall for this tactic and date them after they lace wooing them with insults.
What I don’t understand is why someone who wants a woman to go out with him will resort to insults just to get her attention. That is a special brand of madness if you ask me. Women who fall for such men are not okay too.
If you are a man and you send me a message insulting me or pointing out something you don’t like about my body because you think you have a penis and I must pay attention to you, you are not sensible.
If a woman sends you a message insulting you all in a bid to get your attention, will you listen to her?
Why do you think you have the monopoly of treating women anyhow because you believe women must feel special that you want to date them?
Guys should go and learn how to woo women properly and stop displaying their lack of sense and good manners in public. It doesn’t speak well of you. It’s downright insulting and irritating.
A young man sent a Nigerian writer named Eketi Edima Ette a nasty message all in a bid to get her to give him attention. The guy was just being an ass and there are many guys like him.
Here’s the message:
Someone DMs me a picture of my legs I posted on IG weeks ago. He says:
“Eketi, rickety or whatever you call yourself send me your numba so I can give you tips on how to detox & wax your hairy legs, dirty baboon. Don’t play hard 2 get. Drop ur num now.”
I don’t know why but I burst into laughter. Because it was mad funny. How can someone be this disturbed? He went on to say more. I’m still laughing because humans will be humans. And nothing wey Eketi never see for inbox.
“I love you. Text me your number. You won’t die. Swallow your cheap pride. Stop playing hard and difficult because you aint worth it at all. Just your laugh. Send me your number.”
“I love you. You are jovial like me. We share same like passion. You are not just ok aswear. You are the most boring thing that ever happened to a woman. Monotonously repetitive boredom. You can never make a wife. No wonder you will die single. Dirty hairy bush swine”
How did someone wake up and send another human being these insulting messages and still expect them to drop their number? She will never make a wife yet you are in her DM talking nonsense.
Nigerian guys should stop this annoying behaviour.
