Many people lack the understanding of what friendship truly means
A lot of people lack the understanding of what friendship truly is.
It baffles me when I see people who were once so close begin to tear each other down in public.
So many fake and lip service relationships without depth. No wonder true friendship is hard to come by.
Friendship is a sacred bond which only a few understand.
When you are no longer friends with someone and you think you can not tolerate each other anymore, let everything you did, all you knew about each other remain between the two of you while you move on.
If not for anything respect the days you spent with each other sharing those secrets.
I personally take inventory of people who are fond of washing their dirty linen in public over every argument they have and make sure our paths never cross.
It’s natural to feel bad with the pain of a betrayed friend but it will not last forever. It’s only a matter of time.
It’s important we learn to let go and move on.
As a matter of fact as we ascend in life’s journey there’s always that tendency to outgrow some association,drop some by the way, meet new ones and grow with some.
Truth is not everyone that will go into your future.
No one needs to know your what transpired between you two!
You owe no one explanations to whether you are friends or foe.
You publicize every detail of your relationship that’s why there’s always a need to let the world know when shit hit the fan ,but trust me it is not necessary !
Save yourself some pain and embarrassment.
On the streets of zuckerville, nothing is forgotten.
If you choose to continue, you will only be a form of entertainment to those people are who bored as they get entertained with your stupidity.
You will also be giving jobs to those idiots who enjoy fuelling fights with their comments and gossips from one idle ear to another.
And of course to some you will just be another irritant disturbing the peace of their already hard life.
Friendship is not by force, go in peace, get out of the space for a while if you are so tempted to fire back or block each other and stay quiet.
Some day those words will hunt you.
The internet never forgets.
Sheathe your swords!
Written by Cherrybless Unde