Nigerian men should stop pretending that Nigerian women don’t cheat. Nigerian women have been cheating for ages. They are just good at hiding their sexual affairs. They cover their tracks well.
Men think they are smart but women are smarter when it comes to keeping secrets and hiding things. Some women are so good at playing the cheating game that you can never suspect them.
Young and old women cheat. Single and married women cheat. Religious and non-religious women cheat. Educated and non-educated women cheat. Slim and fat women cheat. Tall and short women cheat. Nigerian women cheat.
It’s not a ‘God forbid, my woman cannot try that issue.’ It has been happening from time immemorial. Women have mastered the act of sliding up and down strong rods without being caught.
Some of these women have mastered the act of chopping and cleaning vaginas while pretending to be virtuous women. Some are dumping other men’s children on their unsuspecting partners and husbands.
Many of these women go to church and pray. They fight to sit at the front row in churches. They speak in tongues while eyeing the pastor and daydreaming about the size of his rod.
You can never suspect the women who comfortably cheat on their men. They appear innocent. They don’t come across as slimy and deceitful. They are the ones who can mention Jesus five times in a sentence.
How common is cheating in marriage? In Nigeria, it is very common for men to cheat on their wives. People expect wives of cheating men to pray for them to change. They blame these women for pushing their men outside with their attitude.
The sad thing is that Nigerian women now believe that cheating is normal and should be part of any marriage. These women say that it rains everywhere and women shouldn’t complain about their men cheating.
Cheating is common among the rich and the poor in Nigeria but more women are cheating on their spouses these days. Nigerian men should not forget that these women are learning from them.
I don’t subscribe to cheating on your spouse. That is making a mess of your marriage vows. If you can’t be faithful to your spouse, remain single. It’s that simple.