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Men need peace is a trap designed to shut women up and keep them miserable for life

Men need peace is a trap engineered to shut women up, stop them from demanding to be treated right and keep them miserable for life.

“Do you often hear the phrase, “Men need peace of mind?”

Men need a woman that can give them peace. Once they find that peace outside the home, their wives have lost them forever. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.


Show me one human being walking the face of the Earth that needs chaos. One, just one. Show me one person that craves anxiety, unrest and sleepless nights.

Yet, the mischievous people who want to give excuses for a philandering husband or one who abuses his wife, always come up with the “Men need peace of mind” line.

What they are telling you is that, they need you to shut up. Turn the other way while he chases Chika, Tola, Mercy and Kiki. When he comes home by 2am, run his bath and feed him food for the stomach and food for his libido. Ask no questions and he will tell you no lies. Do not hold him accountable for nothing. He will do what he will do. You may hurt and you will have to deal.

Any attempt to address any issue, is you spoiling for war. It is you creating a storm in a teacup. It is you refusing him to have peace. So, what do you do? You take it all. The mess, the disrespect, the abuse, the chaos, the hurt and the pain. You grow weary and resentful, you spend your life robbing yourself of peace to create an illusion of peace for a man who doesn’t give a f*ck about your own peace.

Then when it gets too much and you want a divorce, they tell you that God hates divorce.

Men need peace is a trap engineered to shut you up and keep you miserable for the rest of your life.

Do not fall for it.”

This was written by Osariemen Uwaila Ero

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I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.

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