A Facebook user Ijeoma Chinonyerem has revealed what transpired between her and her former bestie Nsikak Effiong in a Facebook post.
Ijeoma Chinonyerem wrote:
I wanted to avoid this ongoing drama about Nsikak. I say I no go make post till I saw the post she made about me. Since she’s made a post, LFG.
1. I did not go through ANYONE’S phone. That’s a big fat lie. I think Nsikak knows this but wants to cling to that lie. How is it possible for me to carry someone’s phone in their presence and scroll through their chats and they’d be watching me? I Ijeoma, did not go through ANYONE’S phone.
2. Every post I made about Nsikak, she asked me to. Nsikak would beg me to make posts about her. Before her birthday she kept on messaging me asking me “babe hope you’ll make birthday posts for me. I know you don’t like making posts for people”. All the time she was in my house she kept asking me to “post it na”.
If she gives me a tip or asks me to do stuff, she would insist on me making a post to hail her on Facebook. This is someone that when she loans her friends money (not me cos I’ve never asked her for a pin), she asks them to make a post.
So her comparing the nice posts I made about her to the stuff she said about me is just funny.
3. Nsikak wasn’t just talking about me to Itee.
If I tell you the number of people who have called me, inboxed me, sent me voice notes of what Nsikak had been saying about me, you’d scream. I don’t want to involve them in this drama else I’d tag them. Saying she was only gossiping about me to Itee. Nsikak!
As at the time Nsikak and I were friends, she was telling people she wants to go meet hymar to tell hymar stuff to use and drag me. She said this to people!
She was telling people I relocated to Lagos to do runs and was forcing her to join her to do runs.
She was telling people I dey beat my boyfriend. Feminist wey dey do runs dey beat her boyfriend but on Facebook dey claim feminist. And obviously since we are close, people believed her.
All this was happening while we were close friends.
She told Itee she snapped my wardrobe cos my clothes were rags. But she went to tell other people she snapped it because she saw pad inside my wardrobe.
Mind you, the time Nsikak was at my place, my mum was there too. My sister was there too. I live in a 2 bedroom penthouse all ensuite with an additional guest toilet and have a cleaner that comes 3 times a week. Yet this girl told people that she snapped my wardrobe cos my hygiene was poor and she saw pad inside my wardrobe. How will I leave pads in my wardrobe when my mum, sister and cleaner dey my house?
Look, my grouse with Nsikak wasn’t that she gossipped about me. I can live with that. It’s the lies to different people.
This girl was on a mission to ruin everyone around her. If you’re going to gossip about someone, why fabricate things?
This is someone that went to Abuja for Ovaioza wahala and told EVERYONE there including people I blocked on facebook that Ijeoma is broke and penniless and cannot afford to fly to Abuja. Sotey dem use am drag me. She came to apologise. Why do you feel the need to put down your friends?
4. Nsikak said I gossiped about my ex friends. I did not. She witnessed what made us fall out. All the people she mentioned, I’ve never come on Facebook to sub them or say an unkind word about them AND WILL NEVER DO! As a close friend, she asked why we stopped talking and I told her. Some she witnessed herself. Confiding in you about MY ISSUES ABOUT ME is not gossiping, Nsikak. You asked, I answered. And some you witnessed firsthand.
