As Facebook users Ijeoma Chinonyerem and Nsikak Effiong are no longer besties, the latter has stated her own side of the story.
Nsikak Effiong wrote:
“Pheeew!
I was going to wait till my dad’s burial was over before addressing this, but here goes.
I don’t have a problem with how anybody sees me. People are free to think and talk whatever. It doesn’t add or take anything away from me.
1. The day Ijeoma Chinonyerem made her call out posts, I wanted her to at least state that she had to go through my WhatsApp chats with my then best friend to get some of what she said. At least that’s what Itee told me when Ijeoma called and was cursing. Contrary to how she put it that I went about discussing about her to many people. It was only Itee!
If you decided to do a call out to “expose” me, at least stick to what I actually did. No need to add salt and pepper to make it seem like a Nollywood movie – a Tchidi Chikere production. LOL! It wasn’t just necessary! But then, it is your style.
Again, Ijeoma took Itee’s phone and went through my WhatsApp chats with my then BEST FRIEND. And, No I wasn’t going about talking about these things to many people as she claimed. I was “gossiping” with a supposed best friend. Best friends gossip! You reading this, you gossip with your best friend(s). I have never ever claimed not to gossip. But, since we all don’t gossip and Nsikak Effiong is the only person who does, let’s keep it at that.
Now did I take pictures of her Wardrobe. Yes! I did! I took pictures of them. Who did I send it to? The best friend. Itee. I was first shocked to see those clothes because for someone who talks big, her wardrobe had basic clothes I felt could be improved n. We were both shocked and then we laughed.
Itee told me to tell Ijeoma about her clothes but I said I cannot cos I do not know how to tell anyone things like this. There are Facebook posts on my wall where I have boldly said I cannot tell a friend certain things about them. It’s on my wall. I rather someone else does but me? I just cannot do it.
I told Itee that I will need her to become friends with her so that when she invites her to her home she can then see for herself and advise her about a wardrobe change. I mean, Ijeoma herself even later posted how Itee helped her with her style and dressing. But it is Nsikak that is the bad one who doesn’t want her friends to shine.
On the other hand , there was nothing I didn’t do in IJeoma’s home that she didn’t take pictures of. Everything I did in her home she snapped and posted. Ermmm, what’s the difference? Oh Difference was they were “nice” abi and mine was the bad one cos I sent them to my then best friend?
Ij, My crime was gossiping with a best friend. Same gossip I have with you. The same thing. So how did you paint yourself as the victim and I the villain? How is it that something you are also guilty of, you are now the victim of and going as far as twisting the truth? Unlike what many think, I don’t tell people many things. If I discuss A and A gets back to me. I can easily trace who I told.
Many of the things I’ve read online had your hand writing all over it! Ijeoma it’s how you claim not to be a gossip, I told only you some gossips and these gossips are everywhere yet I am the bad one ?
Ij, you talked trash of them about your best friend of 15 years Queen, your friend Sharon, Cece, even Gold you are trying to manipulate, Agbo Nma that she calls sister, Onyinye Ndupu . I can go on and on. You are always involved in gossip or anything which concern talking bad of people, but you want to deceive people that you are a victim. Cool story
2. I don’t care about my ex part you have twisted.
You see that part that you claimed that you saw and have screen shots of about me saying I wanted you to be the fall guy for the failed investment. Ijeoma post that screen shot. Since you read the chats from Itee’s chat with me and I know I never told Itee that , I want you to post receipts or you are a liar cos the way you add 9 lies to 1 truth ehn.
What I told you was to be patient with that guy. Many times I have called him my self and shouted. This same guy I’ve told I would never want you dragged for his failed business while also begging you on the side to please be patient and let him sort things. Fall guy how? Post receipts let us see first.
3. You said I never asked about your man? Man way you kept referring to as “friend” and never with his name ? Man you were hiding?
Man that you never talked about except to vent about him? Man that when you want to send screen shots of his chats you crop out the living daylights of his name and pic. That’s the person you said I should have asked who ? who are you whyning?
It was this your man that even revealed his identity unknowingly. How is it that something I told only Ijeoma, a random guy whom I have never talked to will know that thing and go attack his ex? Just how? Ijeoma see, you are not a victim for something you are guilty of. While I was confiding and gossiping with you (yunno we are GOSSIPERS), your man was trash talking me. I saw the screenshots of all he said about me.
And for him to do this with ease, it means you were trash talking me to him and I’m supposed to be your best friend then right? You trashed talked your so called bestie, (ME at the time) to your man. I did not get angry. I took it in good fate. In fact when I asked you if your “friend” goes through your phone you said no. Not like I expected you to admit but know that was my first clue to knowing who your man was.
Plus other things that happened along the line. Me and Itee discussed this. Cos she too was discussing the identity of your man to others. Sha sha , we finally knew he was and with many evidence. She said she was going to confront you about it and she did!!!
It was in telling her that we know that she went snooping on Itee phone to read her WhatsApp chats with me so she can find out how I knew and that’s when she saw chats we had. It was from the chats she saw I was dating my ex. In fact, I am not even sure she snooped on Itee phone, it is smelling like a deliberate set up.
