“My husband always goes out every night and says I don’t have the right to ask him his whereabouts” –Nigerian woman laments
A Nigerian woman, identified as Gift Dinma, has taken to Facebook to seek advice after her husband stopped telling her his whereabouts.
The frustrated woman revealed that her husband goes out every night and whenever she confronts him about his whereabouts, he says she has no right to do so.
Dimma said she is fed up with the disrespectful treatment she gets from her husband daily and unhappy with the fact that her husband no longer spends quality time with her.
Taking to a Facebook group to share her dilemma, Dinma wrote on Wednesday, June 7,
“Pls I need your advice, my husband always goes out every night and when u ask him where he is going to he will say it’s none of my business that I don’t have the right to ask him his whereabouts and am tired of that and we no longer spend time like we used to. Pls what should I do?”
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Why do Nigerian women act so helpless when it comes to men disrespecting them?
What is stopping this woman from dealing with this man the same way he treats her?
If she doesn’t have the right to question him about his whereabouts as well as his comings and goings, then why are they still married?
Why is she asking strangers on social media what she should do as if she doesn’t have what it takes to nip her husband’s behaviour in the bud?
If a husband is no longer affectionate with you, physically or verbally, then you need to rethink your relationship.
If he no longer spends quality time with you and has refused to explain why, you don’t matter to him. If he doesn’t respect you or tell you about his whereabouts, he doesn’t care about how he’s hurting you. This is how to know your husband doesn’t care about you anymore.
