A South African marriage therapist and relationship expert, Bakhe Dlamini, has revealed that he and his wife never ki.ssed during their 10 years of dating.
Dlamini, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Saturday, July 29, 2023, said that he and Nokwanda, a community psychologist/social worker, met in high school in 2001.
“So my wife & I never k!ssed during 10 years of dating. We met at high school, 2001, were prom mates following year, and we didn’t k!ss.
First time I k!ssed her was when the priest said, “You may kiss the bride”, 10 years later, 2 July 2011. Both of us were v#rgins too.
I had to be clear with her from word go that I respected her body, preferred we don’t even k!ss. I believed in being a gentleman, not rushing a woman.
I also mentioned to her that I prefer we don’t even k!ss because I knew that the moment we k!ssed, we would fall into the trap of s€x before marriage. I wanted us to get to marriage pure.”
He finally said; “We also believed in the biblical principle of “no s€x before marriage“. So to those dating and believe in no s£x before marriage, it’s possible. Cheers.”
