Woman, you are not everyone’s cup of tea

Dear woman, you are not everyone’s cup of tea.

The world is filled with people who don’t like you no matter what you do and how hard you try.

But the world is also filled with those who will love you fiercely.

These ones who love you are your people.

Don’t waste your time and heart trying to convince those who are not your people that you have value.

They will miss it completely. They won’t buy what you are selling.

Don’t try to convince them to walk your path with you otherwise you will waste your time and emotions.

You are not for them and they are not for you. You are not their cup of tea and they are not yours.

That’s life. Take it in good faith and move on to your own people.

Your own people won’t bring unnecessary drama into your life.

They will help you achieve your life’s purpose with ease.

Politely wave people who are not for you along.
Move away from them.

Seek to share your path with those who recognize and appreciate your gifts and who you are.

Be who you are. You don’t need the approval of everyone to be great.

You are not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s okay.

As you grow in life, bear in mind that your associates will change.

As seasons change, people will come into your life and some others will leave.

But you can’t be naive not to know that some of your friends won’t want you to go on.

They will want you to stay where they are. They will be angry if you decide to be better.

Friends that don’t help you climb will want you to be stagnant, docile and a nobody.

The friends you surround yourself with can either stretch your vision or choke your dream.

Those that don’t increase you will eventually decrease you. Don’t be naive. Sift your relationships.

Be awake. Be wise. Be discerning.

And be ready to unleash all potentials irrespective of who feels threatened by you.

You have this one life.

Live it to the full.

You matter.

Don’t settle for less.

Live your dreams.

Time waits for no one.

Do what’s best for you.

You don’t need to feel bad for making decisions about your life that upset other people.

If you think everyone has your interest at heart, then you will become minced meat for these people.

It’s your life. You are the one responsible for it.

You cannot please everyone, so quit trying.

You are not responsible for everyone’s happiness.

You are responsible for your own happiness.

Go after things that make you happy.

Anyone who wants you to live in misery for their own happiness should not be in your life to begin with.

You are just living your life. You are minding your business being you and another person tells you not to believe in yourself. Because they can’t be you, they resort to name calling.

They call you crazy. They call you weird, eccentric and even proud. They say you are too much of this and that.

But here’s the deal, people who lack what you have will always tell you what you can’t be and who you can’t be.

The envy they feel in their hearts eats them up.

They will make it their life’s goal to bring you down so that they will feel comfortable about their insecurities and weaknesses.

Don’t get petty.

Don’t go down to their level.

A pig is a pig no matter what it adorns itself with.

Allow their negativity to be your motivation.

Observe their antics. Learn from their whinings.

Use it to your utmost advantage.

Annoy them some more with your intelligence and boom, drop them and let them go.

 

Kate

I am a writer, a journalist and phenomenal woman. I don't conform to societal stereotypes. I am passionate about women and the issues that plague womanhood in this part of the world. Engage and be awakened.

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