A Facebook user, Uduak Etuk said that women were mostly raised on stories of a woman needing a man.
According to her, this was ingrained in women so much that most women see wholeness as a curse.
Uduak Etuk wrote:
“We women were mostly raised on bullshit stories of a Woman needing a Man.
It is INGRAINED in us such that most of us see WHOLENESS as a curse.
It’s almost like going to a city where people are encouraged to have one eye, and the reason is that then God will take over seeing what their two eyes cannot see.
And so, you will make an appointment to remove your left eye, why?
So, you can feel HELPLESS, cos it’s only then, God will see for you.
Cos God’s relevance depends on your BLINDNESS, wow.
Many of us Women FIGHT being WHOLE and COMPLETE. We fight it! Our minds have been so messed up with tales of being HELPLESS and NEEDY, as what makes you desirable.
So, even when you could put down money for a land, a house, build a large business, travel for your PhD, become a millionaire, you intentionally put those on hold, so you can appear HELPLESS and in NEED.
You refuse to intentionally BUILD yourself, do the things you love and desire and make yourself GOLD for YOURSELF, which is why you would ask questions like “should I transfer the land to his name”? “Should I leave that job for peace to reign?”
Completely BRAINWASHED to DESTROY YOURSELF for people whose self esteem and mentality is shit.
Why would someone need you to be HELPLESS and NEEDY before they feel relevant?
If their relevance depends on that, doesn’t it mean they will always seek your PAIN, FAILURE and HELPLESSNESS, to feel satisfied?
You intentionally make yourself a cripple for people who will cripple you even further to maintain their relevance? Looool.
Sister, GO AND LIVE YOUR LIFE. YOU WERE NOT BORN A SHAME. LIVE YOUR LIFE.”
