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What are you speaking into existence right now?

Dear woman, what are you speaking into existence right now concerning your life? What seeds are you sowing regarding your future? What are you telling yourself to manifest in the future?

Are you doubting yourself, calling yourself dumb and useless? Are you telling yourself that you don’t have what it takes to be successful? Are you beating yourself for your past mistakes and calling you stupid for making them?

Are you tired of your life? Are you unmotivated, angry and disappointed with the kind of life you are living right now? Do you hate yourself and feel like giving up?



Take a deep breath. Look at yourself in the mirror. I mean take a good look at yourself.

What are you speaking into existence concerning you, your life and future?

When you look in the mirror, who do you see, a failure or a success?

When you look at yourself, where do you see yourself next year, in two years time, in five years time, in ten years?

Where do you see the woman you are becoming?

Life is not easy. This world is not for the faint hearted. If you are not strong, life’s challenges will break you and make you pessimistic.

You will face challenges, go through fire, suffer disappointments, losses, lose friendships, money, time and investments.

But, you can be successful. You can go through the worst situations and still come out successful.

What are you speaking into existence? What are you telling yourself now? What are you attracting into your future? What are directing into your life through your thoughts and words?

I can’t sleep. I saw an aeroplane fly by my house and I told myself that I’m going on a vacation next year with my daughter. I speak it into existence even though it looks impossible now.

The last time we went for a vacation was in 2015 when my daughter won the National Travel Essay Competition and part of the prize was a trip to Dubai. It was a beautiful moment in our lives.

I speak our vacation into existence. We will have the finances to leave the shores of this country to a choice destination next year. This is my declaration. I believe it and it will come to pass.

Hopefully, COVID-19 would be a thing of the past by then. Hopefully, the world as we know it will be normal again. Hopefully, we get to breathe and live our lives to the full without taking too much safety precautions.

What are you speaking into existence?

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I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.


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