A woman, referred to as Mortified Mrs, found herself in a distressing situation after revealing a deeply personal fetish to her husband.
Despite believing they had a strong and supportive relationship, his reaction left her devastated and questioning the core of their connection.
In her search for understanding, Mortified Mrs turned to a Dear Jane advice column on Daily Mail Online.
She expressed her confusion and devastation, describing her husband’s extreme reaction. What was the f€tish? You can read her letter to Jane below.
Dear Jane,
I’ve been married for three years and have been with my husband for five years – and we have a wonderful relationship or so I thought.
I’ve always been a bit shy about expressing myself in the b€droom and my husband has always been really understanding about it, helping me to be more open about my desires and wants, and he’s never made me feel embarrassed or ashamed about my kinks.
That is until last week when we were talking about our deepest desires and fantasies and I opened up to him about a very private f€tish that I have kept hidden from everyone in my life for years.
I won’t go into too many details because, quite frankly, I’m too ashamed after hearing my husband’s reaction. I don’t think it’s particularly disgusting or weird – it basically involves pleasuring myself with vegetables, something that I’ve always found to be incredibly exciting and er0tic.
But when I told my husband this, he flipped out. He said he doesn’t know if he can ever look at me the same way again, that I’m like a different person to me now, and that he doesn’t feel comfortable ever eating something I cook because he ‘doesn’t know where it’s been’.
I feel so devastated by his reaction. This person who used to make me feel so safe and empowered has now dealt me the biggest ever blow to my confidence and I don’t know how we can ever move past this.
From, Mortified Mrs
