10 signs someone has narcissistic personality disorder

What are some of the biggest signs that someone has narcissistic personality disorder?

The first one is lack of empathy. It so crazy how they have none, zilch, zero but they want your empathy about everything and anything.

Two. Projection. Once you catch on and know what’s really going on, it’s funny how they project onto you what they’re doing. If you want to know what your Narc is up to, just listen to what he accuses you of doing.

Three. They don’t take accountability for anything. Absolutely nothing is their fault. It is everybody else’s fault.

Four. Everything and I mean everything has to be done their way. Whatever it is you’re doing, as simple as moving a couch, you will pick it up, hold it and carry it their way. There is no multiple ways to do things, just one and that’s theirs.

Signs of someone with narcissistic personality disorder

Five, grandiose ideas that are very unrealistic. Like hoping to be made the commissioner of their office when they’ve done absolutely nothing to deserve it ; and spend their time screwing people all hours of the day.

Six. Me me me. Everything is about them. They have to be the center of attention and will do whatever it takes for you to revolve everything around them. They are good at manipulating this to happen.

Seven. They will tell you how much they love peace, hate drama and are very simple people. I would never think it’s possible that one person could create so much drama had I not experienced. More drama than 13 years of school. They can make drama out of dirt and they will.

Eight. If in the beginning of the relationship this person seems way too perfect…beyond that honeymoon phase adrenaline high you get when you are first with someone, I’d take a step back. Listen to the things they tell you. Don’t like drama, simple, if they put you on a pedestal that’s over the top. Stop them at hello and say goodbye.

Nine. They have no respect for others space, time, property and/or no respect just being polite. Using manners. No need for them. They simply don’t care.

Ten. Mark my words. You will become a slave to them. They will control everything you do, say, who you hang out with, often cutting you off from outside life. You eventually become a robot and disconnected from the world.

Last one. They never ever ever follow through on anything they say but they sure will convince you they will “this time” so you keep believing in them.

Written by Lyrndah Onwunali


I am a woman who is passionate about empowering other women to live their best lives and be free from unhealthy societal expectations. I'm a journalist and a columnist with a reputable media house. I educate, inspire and encourage women to embrace their uniqueness fully. I am a mother to an intelligent girl. I love perfumes.

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