Nollywood actress Lota Chukwu has shared a very important thing she is learning about relationships and expects people to take note of it.
Lota Chukwu wrote:
“One thing I’m learning about relationships is: even if you’re a self sufficient person, emotionally and every other way, you need to let people do things for you sometimes even if you don’t need it.
Because one day you will need it, and they are have never learned to give it you. That’s where resentment and hidden anger starts to come in.
Also, if you don’t make them give you, you’ll never know if they’re capable of satisfying that crave that is bound to come one day.
Also, this is why a lot of people who are givers in relationships don’t even realize they are being used.
It usually takes them a very long time to realize the other party is taking them for iediat, because they have never consciously put themselves in a position to be given.”
Ugwu Lotachukwu Jacinta Obianuju Amelia is a Nigerian actress popularly known as Lota Chukwu.
She gained popularity after starring in popular Nigerian TV series, Jenifa’s Diary alongside Funke Akindele, Juliana Olayode and Falz where she plays the role of “Kiki”,a friend of the lead character, Jenifa. Lota Chukwu is also a yoga fitness enthusiast
Giving is important in a relationship. It fills your partner with joy, tranquillity and many more lively feelings of love.
So, it is very important in any relationship to fill the life of your loved ones with colorful joyous gifts to keep them going in life and to make them feel their importance in your life. So, that’s all about why giving gifts is important.
Gifts are a way to show appreciation, which is critical in a relationship. Your partner needs to know that you appreciate him or her. This is why giving is very important in a relationship.
You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. The great acts of love are done by those who are habitually performing small acts of kindness.
